Goodbye to-do lists, hello life!
Koreans work hard. There is absolutely no doubt about that, and in fact, the average employee in Korea works 2423 hours per year, the highest level among 30 OECD countries. Students also work incredibly hard, and for Korean high school students, their time in school is a marathon test of endurance for the all important university entrance exam, which happened to be last week. From the people I’ve talked to, it’s not uncommon for a typical Korean teenager to get up at 6 am and not get home until 1 or 2 am, their days filled with school, and additional schooling at various academic academies and English language schools. All of this is to ensure they get into one of the top three universities in Korea, which in essence will guarantee them a good job in the future.
This Korean mentality of always working for the pursuit of money or further education to be more competitive in the Korean system is in stark contrast to my life right now, and for me, I am seeing the absolute freedom in having time to observe, muse, think, wonder, read, stroll, and greet each day with an anticipation of the surprises and opporutunities that will arise. Until now, I think I have had more of a “Korean” mentality towards life that kept me constantly busy with school, clubs, sports, various musical lessons, and other ways to keep from being idle. For me, though, I am discovering a renewed wonder for simply living and exploring without a syllabus or firm agenda. While this might sound pretty easy, for a “to-do” lister like myself, it has been a shift in mentality for me to not look at each day as a series of activities to cross off a list, with the fulfillment at the end of the day coming from the number of activities accomplished. Now, my sense of accopmlishment comes from the nuggets of insight I obtain each day about the different cultures I am in, human nature, myself, and of course, my ever present pursuit of the idea of freedom. While I will be re-entering the world of schedules, syllabi, and assignments next year when I begin graduate school in the fall, I will be taking with me this new mentality of finding time to be idle, taking each day as it comes and learning from it. I think we can lose sight of how the activities of our day-to-day life affect our freedom, and that maybe, by choosing to not be too busy every once in awhile to just experience life without a schedule or to-do list, we may just find in that moment we are a little bit freer.
