Peer Relationships

Many persons find it challenging to make transitions such as those from high school to college or from job to job. Leaving old friends and making new friends and establishing a supportive social network can seem overwhelming, especially in environments where there is significant pressure to compete as well as to relate.

We work in conjunction with other campus organizations to assist students who are struggling with forming meaningful relationships. The following statements represent some common thoughts and feelings among Vanderbilt students who were having difficulties with relationships.

1	I do not feel like I have anything to offer others.	True	False
2	I am often concerned that others are manipulating me or will take advantage of me.	True	False
3	I often get hurt in relationships.	True	False
4	In relationships, I often fear that others will leave me.	True	False
5	I am scared to be vulnerable or express my emotions in relationships.	True	False
6	I feel that others do not like me.	True	False
7	It is hard for me to establish meaningful connection with others.	True	False
8	I often worry about what others think of me.	True	False
9	I would like more friends.	True	False
10	I feel different from others, as if I don't fit in.	True	False
11	I often find myself in conflict with those around me.	True	False
12	I feel I am rejected by others more than most people.	True	False
13	People say I can be difficult to get along with.	True	False
14	I believe people will reject me once they get to know me.	True	False
15	I often find myself alone even though I would rather be with others.	True	False

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